What is Clittage?

When a woman strokes her clit on you, this is called "clittage" (yes, it's an actual word. I did not make this up.) The word comes from clit + frottage (rubbing sex organs together.) A common way for women to derive sexual pleasure and orgasm is to rub their clitoris anywhere on your body, such as your thigh, arm, tongue or up and down the shaft of your penis. In many cases, this can be way more pleasurable than regular sex.

Exercise #1: With you (the man) on your back and she on top, get her to press her clit into your penis and rub up and down. She controls all movement, speed and pressure. With her weight pressing down on her cat, the sensation is amplified. This is extremely pleasurable for a woman because every move she makes is exactly how she wants it. This is also a common way for women to masturbate, wherein they rub their clit on any object such as a pillow, teddy bear or balance beam.

Exercise #2: Finger clittage is just that: she rubs her clit against your finger. You press your finger (or two fingers) against her clit and she rubs back and forth. You (lucky guy) don't move at all - she once again does all the moving. Two good positions to do finger clittage are when you're spooning (both of you laying on your sides, she facing away from you), and reverse chair (on a chair with the woman facing away from you.)

Exercise #3: Dancefloor Clit Sex. Bumping and grinding on the dancefloor can be very fun for a woman to get a mini-orgasm. While dancing very closely with her, put one of your legs between her legs. She can then rub her clit gently against your upper thigh. Bend your knees and place your hands on her waist. Please don't forget to dance to the music, not to the mystery rhythms in your head. And remember to do this lightly - don't ram your leg into her. Clittage is always about the women controlling the pace and pressure. She is the one taking pleasure, not you.

The main thing to recognize that, as in life, the woman always leads. Put her hand on top of yours and let her direct you as you stroke her clit - ask her to press on your hand if she wants it heavier, push down, up, wherever. Have her show you how she masturbates and take note of her hand positions, the directions they move in and how fast. Then simply copy what she does and you will come closer to giving her gratification than all the other porno moves you've attempted before. She has spent years and years perfecting her technique, and once you can match her, you will be closer to calling the shots in your relationship than ever before. Good luck darlings!

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