Is She Bisexual?

Two hot girls making out in a club is as passé as bartenders wearing wristbands on their forearms. The concept is so old that one must resist the urge to roll their eyes and say "That's sooo '80s!" And yet women still do it, and men still reduce themselves to ogling prepubescents.

Are these women bisexual or simply cock-teasing attention whores? Bisexuality can be defined as both a sexual and emotional attraction to both genders. Being bi-curious on the other hand is the experimentation of same-sex flesh that can run the gamut from kissing and touching to more intimate sexual contact. There doesn't seem to be a definite distinction where bi-curious behavior ends and bisexuality begins.

So which is she? You will probably never know. Girl-on-girl action is often impromptu, and can get pretty hot and heavy. But a woman knows how far she will go. Generally, women from their mid-20s to mid-30s have tendencies to be intimate with another female for sheer pleasure and enjoyment. They are enjoying the other woman for themselves, not for show.

Girls, say from their early teens to early college-age years (where experimentation is both rampant and encouraged), seem to have a more questionable claim to the bisexual title. Why? Because they are young and very suggestible, eager to impress, and inundated with media images encouraging girl-girl action for attention such as the famous Madonna-Britney kiss, Girls Gone Wild commercials and dozens of movies with "risqué" scenes. These kissing females are generally straight, and wouldn't dream of kissing a real lesbian or bisexual for that matter. That would make things weird.

Enticing the surrounding males is the sole purpose of these modern day nymphets. If they claim they are turned on, it's because they know they're turning the guys on. These girls are straight straight straight, and everyone knows it.

The reality is that there is often bi-phobia, an actual stigma associated with bisexuals. They may be accused of sitting on the fence, going through a phase, spreading STDs, being sexually promiscuous, self-indulgent or unable to make up their minds. They often get the worst of both worlds because they don't fit into any prescribed sexual model. It is difficult for straight and gay folks to fully comprehend how bisexuals' dual-gender attractions work.

So back to the kissing girls: You ladies may as well wear a big neon sign on your forehead saying "I WANT ATTENTION! I'M SEXY!! WHO WANTS TO TAKE ME HOME??" Then you can spare yourself the trouble of getting Heather's sloppy tongue on your mouth and getting straight to the point.

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